Dear colinhagemeyer and 891760234,
don’t worry, you can never be late to a party as long as you bring something to the table, so thank you both for adding your thoughts on this topic!
Indeed, one useful strategy is to use your native language to associate Chinese pronunciation with how you pronounce words in your language (as mentioned, such as “en” in “Ben”) - try it, it might help!
The other strategy is to really detach that part of your language speaking habits from how you are used to speaking in your native tongue. In German for example, we would pronounce “en” very harshly as EN, so it helps to try and disassociate these two.
I hope this helps everyone.
Susie